January 16, 2020: When I was a kid I saw my first Flavin at the Lenbachhaus and the docent encouraged me to step into it. I really doubt I would love him this much otherwise. I told this story on Twitter first, which I regret. The first one is at the Met and the second one is more like the one from the Lenbachhaus and is at MoMA. Today the docents at Cooper Hewitt were the most lovely; sometimes I like people telling me how to be with art. NOT YOU